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Adult Iliterutsy ain’t funny Ya’ll

I posted this as a Discussion Topic on FetLife…

HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN YOUR LIFESTYLE… WHEN 911 ARIVES?

Here’s my simple answer:

Other than answering Medically Valuable Questions: Don’t… In Most BDSM dynamics, the best answer is to remain silent… don’t say a word about HOW or WHY…

Instruct your sub in the same protocols.

If it is needed, a Call to 911 should always be made FIRST! Always provide your location, the sex and age of the person injured or endangered, and the specific injury or danger.

After 911 arrives, Render Medical information accurately. If you are at home, you should have a 911 sheet for every member of the house easily available.

I Have a Medic Alert refrigerator Magnet provided by my local Sheriff’s Department which is filled out and maintained for every member of the house, including the cat.

If any questions asked are NOT immediately Medically related, but ask about Lifestyle or Fetishes; ask for “A” Lawyer. This may wind up in front of a court, and everyone in ear shot can and will be called to the stand and required to testify, it does not matter who asks the question, it can and will be used in the courts.

Saying “It’s a Fetish” will quickly land everyone in jail under various sex laws in almost ALL locations. Prosecutors now, more than ever, are prosecuting ‘Sex Offenders’ of all types, and many are seeking major headlines.

I say ask for “A” lawyer, and not MY lawyer, because, almost always, there is a Lawyer available to the police department by the public defenders office at all times.

Police want answers quickly and some answers may be needed quickly. Once “A” lawyer arrives and begins representing you, you can ask them for YOUR Lawyer, if you have one.

You may be embarrassed by your lifestyle in the public, or may believe you could get in trouble for your fetish, and in most cases, this is true. Once your Lawyer arrives, they can help you make the decisions about your LEGAL standing. If you are the sub type, remember that a Lawyer can NOT make legal decisions For You.

Although Legal Information may be withheld when not in the presence of your lawyer, Medical information can never be withheld legally. Information about the health or welfare of another, or yourself MUST be given to medical professionals or first responders, even if that first responder is a police officer.

Safe Sane Consensual or Risk Aware Consensual Kink always waves favor to, Local Legal Statutes for your area.

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A lot of people know me and my long hair, I’ve been growing it for a couple of years now. Unfortunately, since my surgeries I’m finding it harder and harder to take care of.

Enter people who care about me and argue about my choices in hair style (and lifestyle but that’s not what this one is about) and a serious discussion ensues about me cutting my long “Jesus” style hair.

I thought about it… This is what I came up with….

Locks of Love is a well-established nonprofit organization dedicated to gathering donated hair for children’s wigs. This group provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children across the U.S. who suffer from long-term medical hair loss. These children receive custom-made and fitted wigs made from donated human hair for free or on a sliding scale based on need.

Donated hair must be at least 10 inches long, clean, dry, and bundled into a ponytail or braid. Colored or permed hair is acceptable if it’s not chemically damaged. Gray hair is not suitable for children’s wigs. Most of the wig requests come from girls, and they want long hair. That’s why there is a minimum length. Hair as long as 14 to 16 inches is ideal. Shorthaired boy’s wigs are made from shorter lengths separated from longer ponytails/braids. The Fantastic Sam’s in my area also donates the cost of the cut, so guys, it’s a free haircut.

Wigs for Kids is another nonprofit group that accepts donated hair. This organization also gives hairpieces to children affected by medical hair loss. Their hair donation guidelines are slightly different — hair must be 12 inches long and must not be permed or color-treated in any way.

While chemotherapy is the best-known reason for children’s hair loss, it does not cause a permanent loss of hair. After the treatment is over, hair almost always grows back within three to six months. In contrast, alopecia areata, an autoimmune skin disease, can cause patchy or complete hair loss that lasts for years. The cause of the disease is unknown, and it currently has no cure. Locks of Love notes that most of the children they help have alopecia areata, and the wigs are a great boost to the children’s self esteem.

Another way to help cancer patients (children and adults alike) is to make soft hats to cover their heads during chemotherapy. Viking Sewing Machines has sponsored events for home sewers to make and donate “comfort caps” for those undergoing cancer treatment. One mother who lost her daughter to cancer created a web site with free knitting patterns you can use to make soft berets and hats for cancer patients. Sewing.org has a free tutorial on making turbans to wear during chemotherapy. All of these projects require very few materials and are simple enough for beginners to try.

Whether you have hair or handicrafts to donate, those in need will appreciate the warm, stylish head coverings and your generosity. I’ll post the naked head photos on Thursday.